I follow nearly 200  blogs, written by “actually autistic” folks.  Here are some of my favorites:

Actually Autistic Blog List    https://anautismobserver.wordpress.com/

Aspects of Autism Translated  http://www.judyendow.com/blog/

Cambria’s Big Fat Autistic Blog     https://cambriaj1977.wordpress.com/

Chavisory’s Notebook     https://chavisory.wordpress.com/about/

Ido in Autismland     http://idoinautismland.com/

Lydia X. Z. Brown    https://autistichoya.net/

Neurodivergent Rebel     https://neurodivergentrebel.com/

Not Too Trapped in My Head Anymore: https://nottootrapped.wordpress.com/

Johnny Profane:  https://autisticaf.me/

The Thinking Person’s Guide to Autism:  https://thinkingautismguide.com/

The Autistic Mind Finally Speaks: https://inautism.wordpress.com/

Yes, That Too    http://yesthattoo.blogspot.com/

I am also a big fan of Neuroclastic Magazine:  https://neuroclastic.com/